On Menstruation

Self Care for Your Menstrual Cycle

It can’t always be summer!

So many of us live packed lives with our foot on the accelerator at all times. We want or think we have to do all the things and be all the things for all the people.

We need to remember life is made up of cycles and seasons for reason!

There is no better way to demonstrate this than the menstrual cycle. The menstrual cycle is indeed a cycle with 4 distinct phases, that very much can be connected to the phases of the seasons. When you begin to pay attention and recognize this in your own life and then live in balance with this you start to accept and even embrace what each phase offers and you may even begin to enjoy and appreciate your cycle.

Our bodies tells us what they desire each season of the year. In the summer we all have more energy. We want to be outside. The abundance of sunlight affords us extra day time and we take advantage by being more extroverted and active. In the winter our bodies slow down as does the amount of daylight. We crave inner depth, warmth and slow.

When we are in the bleeding part of our menstrual cycle, we are in the proverbial winter and yet many of us continue to act as though it’s summer.

Your body is asking you to slow down. Your hormones are at their lowest (like daylight) of the cycle. You may get mad, “bitchy” during this phase. Of course! One of the reasons might be because you aren’t allowing yourself the slow down. You are judging yourself, your feelings and resisting what your body is asking. You aren’t alone many of us do this!

The winter of your period is all about reflection. The left and right sides of your brain chemistry are speaking to each other maximally at this time, something that only occurs in menstruating adults. This chemistry invites us to see the bigger picture. To take stock of our life and evaluate. Have you ever had that thought or complaint that comes often or even repetitively during your moon cycle? You think that you are being grumpy, “your on your period”, it’s not really that big of a deal. Yet each and every month the thought returns? It is because deep down you want a change and your cycle is reminding you of that. It is “getting real” with you.

So what if you tapped in and honored your bodies rhythms?

Yes I know that you have a life to live, a to do list to cross off and that you don’t live in a society that has red tents. I too live in the modern real world!

what CAN you do to make this time slower?

Here are some ideas:

  1. Go into rest and reflection mode: Each moon cycle is meant to act like clean slate. The hormonal dance is at it’s end and a reset occurs. Get yourself a journal and each and every moon reflect on areas of your life: family, work, business, friendships. Use the natural change that occurs within your brain chemistry during this part of your cycle and marry critical thinking and reflection. Think of your period as a monthly chance to connect with important aspects of your life; what is working and what needs to shift. Get real with your self! Spend 15 minutes, pour a cuppa tea and let the realness of your period connect on a page.

  2. Stop being one long to do list: Let the laundry go, the dishes pile up a bit or the emails go unanswered for just a full day. Do the bare minimum! Take a nice bath, go to bed early and let it all go. It will still be there tomorrow. It doesn’t affect your worth! It shows you that you care about yourself and will listen to your body!

  3. Create your own moon basket of goodies: A special candle, bath balm, yummy smelling essential oils, a hot rice pack, a good book and then use them!

  4. Create a ritual: Ritual is a way that we can honor this time. It doesn’t have to be a big and elaborate thing just something. Buy a special tea that you love and take time to drink it. Choose a special outfit that you wear and can feel good in (ditch the tight jeans). Buy yourself a journal or take a nightly bath with epsom salts. Commit to something that you will do each and every bleed.

  5. Prep: Make a pot of soup full of micronutrients and freeze it ahead of time, rather than junking out as so many of us do during this time. Do any lingering projects or things that you can do in advance so that you feel more at ease slowing down.

  6. Reframe by looking forward to a bit of a slow down: I hear all the time that people are bummed that this time of the month slows them down whether they want to or not. Try for a cycle or two to simply entertain the possibility that you may look forward to a bit of a slow down.

  7. Become a visionary: Chart your cycles so that you know when they are coming and create space to allow yourself to slow down. That means that if you are asked to attend an event or make a commitment you say NO. The no is not based on your love or desire to be there or help but rather on a love and desire for yourself and an acceptance to let yourself be in winter. We all think that if we say no we are missing a chance to x,y or z, we will disappoint someone or that we are selfish. Every other women bleeds and just gets on with it so why are you special right? The thing is we are all special and we all have this right. Choose to take it!

Over to you! What do you do or plan on doing to slow down and take care of yourself during your period? Comment below.


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Endocrine Disruptors: 5 Ways to Reduce Your Toxic Load and Improve Your Hormonal Health

One of the things that I often hear women say is how complicated it all is! So let’s start off with the basics.

To keep it SUPER simple let’s start with a saying most of us are familiar with, “You are what you eat” and then add on “You also are what you put in and on your body”. It’s true in our modern day society it’s not only what you eat and drink but what you eat and drink out of and what you put on your body that affect your hormonal health. It’s no wonder peoples heads begin to spin!

Parabens, BPA, DDT, Toluenve, 4-Dioxane and oh my!

Thousands of chemicals are released into the market each and every year and very few of those are actually tested for their health effects on humans or the environment (crazy isn’t it)! Current research is undeniably pointing out that contact with many of these chemicals at crucial points of development, create various problems: for developing fetuses, kids going through puberty and other transitional points of life. The long term affects of the over all health of humans it still unknown and being studied, as we are all used as lab rats. Research does point to a definite impact on our endocrine system by way of our hormones.

What’s an endocrine disruptor?

Endocrine disruptors also known as hormone disruptors are simply chemicals found in our environment (air and water), soil, food, food containers and some of our consumer products that directly alter our hormones in various ways. Hormone disruptors can affect your immune system, neurological system and reproductive health. (If you are really interested to get into the nitty gritty science on the how’s and why’s the chemicals do this see the links at the bottom of this article to do further research).

Endocrine disruptors come into our bodies through our nose, pores on our skin or our mouth. They interact with various hormones in our body in various ways. Some can block while other imposters enter our bodies and masquerade as our own hormones but on speed! One of the most common ways is by mimicking the hormone estrogen. Estrogen is one of the main female hormones and is responsible for regulating the presence of our uterine lining each cycle, developing breasts and our bone mass, just to name a few. When the hormones disruptors enter our bodies and confuse our system, our body thinks we have an ABUNDANCE of estrogen and estrogen dominance is one of the results.

Estrogen dominance is when there is an excess of the hormone estrogen in our system causing an imbalance to occur. An over abundance of estrogen has been linked to a MAJOR increase in the likelihood of PMS symptoms, fibroids, infertility, weight gain (especially around the middle or omentum), headaches, and estrogen dependent cancers like breast, uterine and ovarian.

Life is full of so much information! So why is this something that we need to become informed about and take action on?

The statics on gynecological and endocrine disfunction are astounding and rising all the time. These hidden chemicals that are literally wreaking havoc on our bodies and if you aren’t seeing any impact now it is likely that at some point in your life you will.

Good news! There are simple changes that we can make in our everyday life that will greatly reduce the chemical load on our bodies.

I get it! It’s hard to make a change especially when the information seems overwhelming or unaccessible! The list below is filled with simple ideas that can make a major immediate impact. My advice is choose ONE thing of the 5 to focus on NOW and start to make changes. Once that is part of your everyday habit move to another.

5 Ways to reduce your toxic load on a daily basis.

  1. Clean up your cleaning supplies: We all clean our dishes, or some part of our house/office and even our bodies on a daily basis. The VAST majority of products that you will find on the market contain hormonal disruptors. More than that the marketing world has caught on and uses the word natural and green to describe products that contain chemicals that we don’t want to put in or on our bodies. Knowledge is power! To find a complete list of chemicals and alternatives check out the Dirty Secrets Report.

  2. Beauty & Personal Care Products: Beauty is no longer just skin deep! The personal care products that you use on a daily basis maybe harming your hormones! I know it’s hard enough for many of us to find products that work with our skin or that we enjoy and it can be hard to want to change those but one study done showed that simply by changing make up from a chemical filled brand to a chemical free brand the measurable toxic load in the urine sample within 3 days was GREATLY reduced. Don’t worry there are organizations that have done the research for you, you can check out The Never List for ingredients you want to avoid, as well as Skin Deep to find lists of products that are safe to us.

  3. Food: I know that going organic has been “a trend” for a while now. I also know that organic can be more expensive. When possible pass on the “filler” food (you know those oh so tasty cookies, chips, cereal) to save money and buy these foods organic. Another huge plus for hormonal health, when possible make sure you buy foods that are not stored in plastics!

  4. Know what's your cooking with: We all love the non stick pans but most of them are literally cooking chemicals into your food! Switch to stainless steal or cast iron to avoid the extra chemicals!

  5. Plastic, Plastic, Plastic: It seems that we live in a world made out of plastic! Try buying a glass water bottle. For a super cheap solution get yourself a mason jar and some yarn to tie around for a handle. When reheating and storing food make sure you are doing it on a plate or in a glass container. This is a HUGE way to reduce chemicals leaching into your food.



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The Power of Menstrual Health: It's a Revolution Ladies

Ladies, the statistics say it all, women’s gynecological health issues are appalling!

  • 176 million world wide have endometriosis.

  • 1 in 10 women have PCOS.

  • 70% of all women with have at least one fibroid by the age of 60.

  • 60% of us over 60 will have a hysterectomy (starting as early as 25-35 these days). As many 75% of these are unnecessary.

  • 30% of all women aged 15-40 are on a hormonal birth control (over half is due to non-contraceptive needs a.k.a to put a band aid on a hormonal imbalance)

(Disclaimer even if you aren’t included in those stats the information in this article is for you! Specifically to keep you out of them!)

This stats tell a grim picture about the status of women’s gynecological health world wide. That’s the bad news.

So what’s the good news!

The younger generation is on it! There is a menstrual health revolution going on and I am so happy to be a part of amazing teens, young women and even those of us entering into our crone time working towards better health for women. Better health for women means more empowered health, women not only knowing more about their bodies but also talking about it!

I want to share just a FEW of the teens and women who are up to amazing work in this menstrual health revolution!

Bryony Farmer: Bryony is a TEENAGE girl from the United Kingdom.  Her path on the menstrual health revolution started when she contracted Lyme disease. Lyme left her bed ridden, which made changing pads/tampons incredibly hard. She discovered the menstrual cup which lead her to get deeply in touch with her own body and inspired her to share and educate other teens. She founded the company and website Precious Stars, along with a YouTube channel to help educate young girls about their periods in an empowering and accessible way from a peer.

Nadya Okamoto:  Nadya runs the organization Period. The Menstrual Movement. She started this organization after her family unexpectedly found themselves homeless in her teen years.  She saw a first hand account of how the lack of access to feminine hygiene products affected homeless women in countless ways. She crusades to make access to menstrual health information and products a right and not a privilege.

Alissa Vitti:  Alissa Vitti is a POWERHOUSE.  She has taken her own diagnosis of PCOS in her early 20’s and challenged the there was nothing that could be done other than birth control pills or a hysterectomy.  She spent years of research and personal trials, deeply connecting to the healing power of food and the endocrine system.  She helps MILLIONS of women each year do the “impossible” and heal from PCOS and other menstrual health issues.

Megan White Mururia:  Founder of the ZanaAfrica Foundation an organization that helps Kenyans girls stay in school by providing them with free sanitary pads (prior to this organization the girls were missing up to 6 weeks of school per year and dropping out at high rates all due to lack of menstrual health care products).  She is not only providing access to products she is showing the girls that they are worth it and that this cycle doesn’t have to hinder there life, she is opening the conversation.

These women are calling B.S on the notion that there is nothing that we can do about the abysmal women’s health statistics and disease.  Not only are many of them doing their own research they are also being fearless about changing the narrative!  They are talking out loud what cross culturally we have kept secretive for so long.  The more we talk the more we can bring focus change occurs. 

So…HOW DID WE GET HERE?

Back in the day when I was a kid NO ONE in my friend group, town, just NO ONE was talking about periods! As an adult I chalked this up to being raised in a small town in middle America. However, I have come to research and experience first hand that well over 50% of the adult female population STILL don’t want to talk to ANYONE about their periods or menstrual health issues (even health care providers). They state that they don’t feel heard, they don’t trust and they don’t believe there is anything that can be done other than a pill or surgery.

One of the reasons that so many of us as women don’t know about our own cycles traces all the way back to actually getting our cycles. 

In my years as a midwife and menstrual health educator I have heard countless stories of surprise, embarrassment, shame, confusion and ignoring of the start of the young girls period. When a girl started menstruating there was little communication and life moved on.  These are just a few short versions of stories I have heard OVER and OVER again.

“It just wasn’t talked about”

“I had no idea what was happening to me.  I felt scared and alone.”

“I was given a pad (slid under the door) and told it would happen every month and that was it”

 “I hid it for a full year; I was so embarrassed” 

“My mom told me that my life was basically over and that I better get used to feeling horrible every month”

Let’s take a good look what the ramifications of that introduction into menstruation might be to the over all menstrual health life cycle. 

From the very beginning we are disconnected from the cycle!  We never see it as a curious thing that occurs, let alone as something we could and should have knowledge about.  We experience it as a few days of “bleeding” that is annoying and that we grin and bare, along with all of the annoying and sometimes painful things that come with it.  We aren’t given the understanding on how this cycle occurs all throughout the month and affects ALL THE THINGS!  We aren’t given the knowledge that what we do, eat, how we exercise and so many more things directly impact our cycle.  It is rare that someone says our cycle doesn’t have to hurt, to come with pain and that we don’t need to wish it away.  In fact, has anyone ever told you that your cycle is actually your bodies way of communicating with you on what is going on internally and is even an indicator on how your overall health is?  Thinking about it like this makes it seem POWERFUL.   

Now imagine a world where….

Can you imagine if when (or even before) you got your period someone was open and honest with you?  What if your introduction into this time of your life was honored?  What if you were given information about how important menstrual health is for your entire life?  Heck what if you were just given some information about it in a way that promoted the normalcy of the event rather than talking about it secretively?

The truth is that we have so much more “control” over our bodies than we ever realize.  Really the control or power that I am talking about is coming from being able to understand our own bodies and then have supportive tools to respond.  To no longer be reactive to them and push away any pain we have by taking pills (that end up putting a band aid on the root cause and making it worse in the long run) or pushing away uncomfortable emotions and chalk it up to “PMS”, rather than digging into what PMS emotions are telling us month after month.

THAT’S WHY WE NEED A MENSTRUAL HEALTH REVOLUTION

And you need you to be an empowered participant!

Many of the women highlighted in this article and that take part in this work came to this calling through their own experience of disease.   The thing about the revolution is that we are asking all girls and women to show up and be empowered by reframing their thoughts, curiosity and knowledge about their cycles.  We want girls starting their cycles and women who are at every stage to know about their bodies so that we change those stats!

For me knowing about our bodies is as necessary as breathing and eating (in fact so much of our hormones are actually regulated by our diet).  If you feel disconnected, uninformed about your body or want greater connection than make sure to check out Empowered Menstrual Health; becoming an empowered participant in the revolution by just knowing more about the intricacies of your own body (whether or not it is suffering from dis-ease).